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You Asked It: My GF Wants Intercourse. I Don’t.

You Asked It: My GF Wants Intercourse. I Don’t.

My girlfriend desires to have intercourse. Her i didn’t think I was ready, she started crying and said all guys wanted sex when I told. Now she does not think that i believe she’s attractive. But i actually do! Am I being strange by saying no to intercourse? How do i convince her i wish to have intercourse with her—just maybe maybe not at this time?

First, it is great that you’re reasoning about whether you need and therefore are prepared for intercourse. Using the right time for you to sign in with your self such as this is super healthier. Keep it!

2nd, it is completely normal and ok not to wish intercourse now.

Simply because your gf desires intercourse doesn’t suggest you’ll want to. Differing people feel at ease with various things at different occuring times within their everyday lives. You don’t must have a reason never to wish to have sex—whether it is the very first time or the hundredth.

Nonetheless, it is maybe maybe perhaps not a shock which you don’t want sex that you think it might be weird. You will find large amount of false some ideas inside our tradition about dudes’ sex. One of those is the fact that guys ALWAYS need intercourse. This will be absurd and totally false.

This stereotype can be actually harmful.

It will make dudes for not wanting sex 24/7 like you think something is wrong with them. A whole lot worse, it makes the indisputable fact that males can’t be sexually assaulted (most likely, they desired it! ) whenever the truth is 1 from every 10 rape victims is male.