We emailed and emailed males, postponing a face-to-face, before the presumptions we both brought along up to a date that is first ludicrous. In a single case we ‘fell in love’ upfront, having written months of novels one to the other. He took against me personally to start with sight.
The constant judgement that is physical a shock to start with. I’m a fan of a man that is sturdy greying, balding, just a little world-weary, their life experience written on their face plus in their eyes.